2011年10月20日星期四

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Let the children be themselves, feel a bit free in what they do and say because you are still a parent and "old," no matter your age. Sharing, caring, and being respectful and kind are more than platitudes. If they are open to seeing other options, then they are on their way. If they Air Max France,are upset, it is not necessarily with them. Respecting that other children have interests, likes, dislikes, and favorites is just a part of life. KapturAugust, 2007Arleen M. If your child is only interested in their favorite sport, doll, or superhero, then this limits the playing field for them. If your child senses that they are an integral part of your life, then he/she will soon come to the conclusion that friends are a vital part of who we are and where we want to go. They could just be having a bad day or something at home that has nothing to do with your child. Something to think about.©Arleen M. You can help but you cannot overstep or take over. The clothes you wear, the type of car that drives you to school, or the shoes on your feet is not the big answer. What may start out as a "war" may well just be a "skirmish" and a "victory" is at the end of that tunnel.When you sit down with your child to discuss making friends, the important lesson is that they understand they have to be a friend to have one. If it is to some, then their friendship would be shallow and uneasy. Of course, supervision is important but it should not be overbearing. Also, your child should be taught to "read" other kids. Everything is not your child's fault. Being a friend is the first step, and even when the bumps and bruises of childhood come along, your child will have the confidence that life does take a curve but you are there to help smooth the edges and to let go of some of the worries. Your child will be an outsider looking in and that is not what you want.Children learn more from example, then words. You don't have to be part of the board game, and you don't have to help make a field goal. Helping your child is one thing, but if you go too far, then the kids will come for your cookies, your games, and your rides to places to go. If tensions arise, then step in a bit, but even letting minor issues heal themselves is a learning experience. It is never too early to learn these traits and incorporate them in daily living. It is and always will be the person inside that designer jacket, or walking in those Nike shoes. If your child feels in their heart that people are more important than things, then they will be open and ready to meet other children half-way and to share experiences DG Pas Cherand playthings.If you want to help your child succeed in being a good friend, then be one to your child. Other children can have issues and needs, and adults are there to fill in the gaps. They are a way of life - an inroad to being the type of person everyone wants for a friend. Treasure your friends, talk about them in "good" terms, and make time to share yourself with them. This, in itself, will be an outward push to try a bit harder, or to be more open and resourceful.As a parent, if you open your home to children from your child's school or soccer team, don't "be" there constantly. Children can be moody and understanding this can lift tension and fear. A few minutes and allowing your child to be themselves and talk to you will be more help than lectures and demands. Share your time, and your wisdom in a way that will make your child see that love is life and having friends is a treasure in itself. You are an example and that is louder than your Air Max Bw Pas Cherwords. Selfishness and "mine" is a part of growing up, but it can be channeled into the right road so that fun and enjoyment is not pushed aside in order to have everything. With school bells starting to ring, many parents will hear their little ones moan that "no one likes me." When you are young and new at making friends, it can be quite a challenge and it can hold a lot of fears and tears.Can a parent help a child make friends? The answer is not an easy one and it is both yes and no. Kaptur has written many books and articles on everyday living and finding peace and joy in all we do..




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